Confidence can be a sticky subject for so many of us in the Eff Perfect fam, especially since perfectionism, people pleasing, and approval and worthiness seeking are all barriers to building confidence.
Be Humble?
Are confidence and humility mutually exclusive, or can they coexist peacefully? For many of us recovering perfectionists and people pleasers, humble is our default setting, maybe even too humble. What happens, though, when we start to notice the subtle and not-so-subtle downsides to making ourselves smaller and less important? How can we start to build confidence and -- gasp! -- maybe even step into some swagger? Turn your 🎧 up to find out.
Dream Bigger
As recovering perfectionists, we’re so easily tempted by endless dreaming and scheming only to come up with every excuse not to take action.
‘My dream is too big. It’ll take too much time, too much work, too much money. I have no idea how to make it happen, and look at all the other people out there who are already doing it better than I ever could.’